I have somewhat recently heard of a sponsor who lynched his ‘sponsee’ over dumping him for other men. This happened after the lynch victim completed her studies at Kenyatta University.
One of my friends asked me whether it’s good to have a sponsor; being a quack on relationship matters, I had to dig further to have a fully examined answer to this byzantine problem.
The newly introduced jargon has seen young girls join a new fray of lethargy with noble men taking issue with this. Some however think it’s totally within the realm of modernity to get sponsored.
Others claim that it’s often easier for a woman to confide in a man when sponsored. How do young girls and boys benefit from relationship sponsorship from either married or single but financially unwavering persons?
Sponsorsto me are all-rounded provident cartels be it ladies or men who offer all sought of comfort to ‘girls’ and boys’; a person who is in for sexual comforts, old, one who lobby’s for divorces in many families, is moneyed enough to offer a profligate lifestyle and therefore able to lure all fashion of cheats.
I would further inscribe a sponsor as an older man or woman with no clear methodologies of spending their retirement benefits therefore squeezing the small minded in exchange of fresh sexual pleasures.
These are frail men and women chasing after short skirt and well groomed but cheap men around them. Sponsors provide outing dough, they pay rent, they clothe the candidates, caters for miscellaneous expenses while others further the love to buying their ‘strange lovers’ long term assets like vehicles and land.
A recent survey conducted in Kenya divulges that 65% of youngsters Okays the presence of sponsors with 45% out ruling that sponsors are of any use.
It’s however less jotted that sponsors further the opaque but murky sexual lives of the youth, with the enquiry of contraceptives becoming even more intricate. Sponsors do kill should the sponsee oppose their pleas, no freedom is fully guaranteed by sponsors as they may require the sponsee anytime of their choice.
It’s a question that goes unanswered why the young are easily acquaint with such traits with the unending grapple their parents pose to have them educationally groomed for a better life.
All said and jotted my opinion to a girl and a boy looking for a sponsor is; wake up from cheap thinking. Why were you educated? Why are you embracing laziness in your life, why do you agree to be sexually used? Do you know the duration of your future-less relationship? Do you know another woman or man suffers when you sleep with their lovers? A bad, regrettable life awaits you.
Be in the know.